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The Josh Speaks
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Helping Teens and Young Adults Build the Confidence They Need To Succeed in Life, School, and Relationships
▶️ New video every Saturday and UA-cam shorts every Monday and Wednesday!
I make videos teaching the values of compassion, mindfulness, and confidence to teens and young adults looking for advice in different areas of their life: self-worth, relationships, academics, and family. My goal is to help you learn how to be your best self and unlock your ability to be somebody great!
I am also the author of the teen self-help guide "Embracing The Awkward: A Guide for Teens to Succeed at School, Life, and Relationships" which you can check out here: thejoshspeaks.com/awkward
You can hire me to speak at your event or learn more about the work I've done in schools, online, and more: thejoshspeaks.com/speaking/
As always, love and peace. ✌️🤞
▶️ New video every Saturday and UA-cam shorts every Monday and Wednesday!
I make videos teaching the values of compassion, mindfulness, and confidence to teens and young adults looking for advice in different areas of their life: self-worth, relationships, academics, and family. My goal is to help you learn how to be your best self and unlock your ability to be somebody great!
I am also the author of the teen self-help guide "Embracing The Awkward: A Guide for Teens to Succeed at School, Life, and Relationships" which you can check out here: thejoshspeaks.com/awkward
You can hire me to speak at your event or learn more about the work I've done in schools, online, and more: thejoshspeaks.com/speaking/
As always, love and peace. ✌️🤞
Things Guys Do That Make Them Look WEAK When Talking To Girls
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Tired of losing girls to bad texting? Learn why your apologies, negative assumptions, and desperation might be sabotaging your chances. Discover the hidden mistakes guys make and how to fix them.
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0:00 - How you end up as "just friends"
0:21 - Constantly apologizing
1:09 - Assuming negative outcomes
2:03 - Using guilt to make her say yes
2:55 - Lashing out in anger at her
4:07 - How to look more confident
#dating #relationship #attraction
➜ Set up a coaching session: patreon.com/thejoshspeaks
➜ 20 FREE conversation starters: thejoshspeaks.com/ice-breakers
MORE HELPFUL RESOURCES
➜ Check out my book "Embracing The Awkward": thejoshspeaks.com/awkward
➜ Join our online self-help community: thejoshspeaks.com/discord
➜ Convenient and affordable therapy: betterhelp.com/thejoshspeaks
FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL
➜ thejoshspeaks
➜ tiktok.com/@thejoshspeaks
Website ➜ thejoshspeaks.com
Tired of losing girls to bad texting? Learn why your apologies, negative assumptions, and desperation might be sabotaging your chances. Discover the hidden mistakes guys make and how to fix them.
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 - How you end up as "just friends"
0:21 - Constantly apologizing
1:09 - Assuming negative outcomes
2:03 - Using guilt to make her say yes
2:55 - Lashing out in anger at her
4:07 - How to look more confident
#dating #relationship #attraction
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Thanks for the tips, Josh! As someone who’s dealt with missing home before, I really appreciate the advice that you gave. You’re doing the Lord’s work here. God bless you!
If it doesnt matter, we wouldnt have the standard of minimal partners for so many millenia.
Bro first crush is so hard to text
She never replied to my msg unlike the evening before! Was just a msg sayin hey lady What's happening? With fun emojis! I work with her she's brilliant face to face so I'm not gonna get upset about it & won't reach out outside working hour's again unless she does! This is a lady that can't keep her 👀 off me 🤷😂😂
This is an idiotic analysis. So your friend was upset because he couldn’t match her body count and he was trying to? That is stupid and couldn’t be true. He wasn’t upset. He was disgusted because she was a whore. I’m 99% sure this guy made this story up for content. Get yourself a writer.
Our conversation Me-hi Him-hlo Me-i guess u know me Him- i know Me- u can look at me i will not upset Him-means Me-nothing Me-can we talk? Then i morning he block me He was giving me attention but he did this..how can i face me in college Guyss need help🥺🥺
Me and a friend are kinda "competing" for a girl rn and he already has her number from a friend, I don't. Help!
Thank you for the tips😉👍
I don't want them to get divorced yar
OMG WHEN MY FRIEND TOLD ME THAT SHE LIKED HIM I WANTED TO SCREAMMMM!!! like it was the best day ever until she told me that
Bro wtf are you saying. You are saying that don't wait I can wait for her for my whole life
If I don't get a reply back from a girl in less than 24 hours, I'm getting rid of her, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.
Do you reply to every message you get within 24 hours as well?
@TheJoshSpeaks Typically yes.
11. "I'll think about it" 12. "K."
One thing… she’s friends with my ex’s cousin
Thank you brother!
Sorry, that's really sad. When you are simping too much, then this definetely shows you have a lot of problems, starting woth very low self esteem.
Low self esteem is definitely part of the problem. A lot of times, that person with derive their sens of worth from their crushes attention and validation.
This girl gave me a letter about her liking me and I don’t know what to say I just see her as a friend and I’m scared she takes it the wrong way it’s so hard to reject someone without hurting there feelings it’s hard because people hate being rejected but it’s the hardest thing to reject someone
Hi Josh lately I’ve been rlly scared about ww3 starting and me dieing of nukes can u explain to me why It’s not gonna happen
if i get 50 likes from the community i will ask her out
Idk any of her friends 💀
If they don't involve you, DON'T ASK TO GO. They show you how they feel about you
Thk you 😅 kids bullied me at school because day say I'm ugly but i don't I'm not ugly ❤❤❤😊
I understand know what to do
Yes I'm first person 😅
Damn i was SO into Michael J. Fox when he was younger for SO long. I was 11 when i started having a crush on him😂 and it lasted till i was 15. Now i still like him but not obsessive anymore luckily and my man is the only one i love obv but i still think hes hot 😄
Step 1:have a crush
Wish I would’ve put myself out there more in college now I’m still single at 30 😢
Who the fuck is this guy gett him outta here
MY CRUSH IS NOT INMYCLASS
Cuck and simp of the year award goes to ....The Josh speaks
This Josh guy just got voted simp and cuck of the year
This guy Josh is a major simp
How so?
My crush hate me because I am ugly...
@TheJoshSpeaks if you’re liberal ideas were true then there would be no difference between sexual assault and regular physical assault. Are you going to say that there is no difference? The simple difference is sex has meaning. I know you most likely are an atheist, but God made sex, God made marriage. God and people outside of America all know that once somebody is married,are married to that person till they die. It doesn’t matter what anybody says to you because you are among the demoralized. There could be mountains of evidence in front of you proving a specific cause, but you will still not come to a logical conclusion. You Americans have been psychologically manipulated by psychological warfare for decades, and you do not even know it. Therefore you will never understand unless you do what that guy that is just like you did. The blue haired girly man Destiny I think his name is called. As an open marriage with a woman with a high body count. I suggest you go do that and then you will find out. Maybe you will understand when you get older but it is unlikely.
My parent are going to be mad at me bc I have like a B or a C in my report card they haven't came out yet but I saw it at the tr's laptop and I'm just really sad I'm just sad bc there is a parent tr meeting as well and my tr is going to say the bad things. I'm 11, Asian and stressed idk what to do but just think that I can't be happy bc some day it's really going to hurt and ik this bc at my last report it was two C's and was really painful for them to react. today is the 21st of August 2024 and I get my report card at 27. It's more tough bc my sister is a straight A student and I'm a B student. I'm writing this bc I was watching this video and though that in the future there maybe someone as well in the same thing as me. I just hope my parents accept me and still have the thought that I'm their daughter. I wish me the best.
It maybe work for others, but mostly don't. It instantly kills attraction. Maybe she will be flattered, but her feelings will fade over time because the mystery is gone.
Who thinks hes talking about himself? Hahahaha
If I were sharing a story about myself I would have said so, much like the other story videos that were actually about my experiences here on my channel.
@@TheJoshSpeaks ahhhh....i couldnt care less, it was a joke. Ive never seen 1 of ur videos before, and know nothing about u. But u do seem to be objecting to strong....HAHAHA
I cuss like a sailor and know it comes across as abrasive so im going to stop! thanks for the tips and best of luck to anyone trying to change themselves for the better
This is ridiculous y do he have to compare himself to her past. Its past for a reason Living in the past is hell
I am an overthinker, already saw it in my head, and I say to hell with it. I give up on her, only staying at her house rent free, working on my self and work
oh my gosh, thank you, I just met a girl, and this is the first time I've ever started something like this, I got her number, but I don't know anything about her, what do I do
Shallow "friends" want to be NEAR you and just outside their emotional boundaries so they can look good in the eyes of other people. They only want you for your money and for popularity reasons. Real friends want to be THERE FOR you because they genuinely want you to be happy and feel loved. They want their emotional boundaries and your emotional boundary to combine with each other. They listen to your wins and losses, absorb what you have to say, and reciprocate when you do things for them. I am a REAL friend, and you should be one, too, whoever is reading this.
I just want to know what makes a person go, "This guy is a lot like me. I'm going to invite him over. That other guy...is a little bit smarter than the both of us. I'm not inviting him over. Let's make him feel left out because of this difference, too." Do people like this really feel like they need to make people's lives harder? Are they really that evil?
Do u think it’s embarrassing to still play with them at the age of 18
I had stopped at cursing when I used to take care of my little brother. i’m not sure if it’s the frustration in life, but since having kids of my own now, I curse even more than I’ve ever had before. Won’t lie sometimes I feel a bit trashy.
Well high body count shows how little you value your body and dignity. I'm a woman but I wouldn't want a man with high body count either. No one wants someone who's slept with the entire town lol. It will affect both you and your partner, it's better to be with someone on the same level. I'm still a virgin and I would expect my husband to be one too or in the very least a low body count.
Good answer! 👍🏿
taking advice from a simp who likes used women lmfao good luck
What if the rumors are true? I would very lightly mouth words to myself and a guy went around saying I talk to myself and it really hurt my feelings. Did i deserve that?
No, you didn't deserve that at all.
If you had to choose btw a women who is an virgin who want to be relationship with you and women who has high body counts also want to have relationship with you, which would you choose? This will say a lot about your personality.
Your question rests on the idea that virginity is a valued quality when choosing a partner. If a person doesn't hold that perspective then their answer would be either of them. Given that I don't see virginity as a marker of a quality partner, I would say either. What do you believe that says about my personality?
What if the girl mistreats nice guy and intentionally misled him for personal gains when she never had any genuine feelings for him? Does he have the right to express his anger or sorrow? It’s not the rejection but the disrespect to be the issue.
How we choose to express our feelings matters. I don't think there's anything wrong with letting a person know that their actions hurt us, but there is a thin line there between sharing and unloading. If you feel angry and want to express your feelings in the moment of anger, it's probably going to be best to do so after you've taken some time to cool those flames so you can communicate in a way that is honest, direct and not attacking.
@@TheJoshSpeaks ok that’s a fair answer but still no disrespect should be tolerated.